Fairytales and romance...real or fake?

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 We live in a world where everyone wants to date and love a black woman on social media but never in real life. We are always chosen because of our body and never our personality, is there actual love out there for black women? We all want the ending of the fairytale to be like Princess Tiana and find our prince and live happily ever after. 

Black women are navigating a dating world filled with micro aggressions, clorism,and outright racism.Black women are the demographic most likely to be unmarried, per a 2019 Pew research Analysis. 

But our fairytale and true romance will come! We as black women have to realize that in this generation that we might not get picked first but the love of our life is right around the corner but we must find self love.

 


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